
He walked her all the way to security. They waved until each other were no longer in view. She called him while the plane was still on the ground until her pre paid cell minutes ran out. “I was sobbing uncontrollably” Castillo explains. She did not want to leave him or Chile. Her visa was up. School started in a week. Her close friends had warned her about the hardships of long distance relationships, and never in a million years had she planned on returning to the states with a Chilean boyfriend. She was scared to let herself fall in love, but he was worth all the distance.
The daughter of a lawyer and an artist; Castillo exudes passion and adventure. Her long glossy blond hair falls into her face blocking her truth seeking blue eyes as she bikes along the Battery. She is a senior double majoring in Political Science and Spanish at the College of Charleston.
Before leaving to study in Valparaiso, Castillo had been a permanent fixture in Charleston’s green community. As the president of Alliance for Planet Earth club at the College of Charleston she forged change in her community typically unheard of from the semi-dormant student club before her leadership. With Castillo at the helm, Alliance for Planet Earth held the College of Charleston’s first ever trash audit, giving the club and the campus a lot of attention from local media. While still at the reins, Alliance for Planet Earth helped shut down a coal plant and received a $25,000 grant to increase the recycling program on campus.
“Paulooooo” she coos as the Skype video opens on her laptop. “There has not been one day since I have left Valparaiso that we have not heard each others voices,” she says. Barrios is an engineering student at Pontifica Catolica Universidad in Valparaiso where he also works at an oil refinery to support his family.
Castillo was the first American girl that he had ever met. "I thought that Americans were more distant and not very sociable, but when I met Alessandra and her friends I realized that Americans are very similar to Chileans," explains Barrios. On paper due to their contrasting career paths one would not assume that these two would hit it off.
“It was the best week of my life,” Castillo says, recalling her first meeting with Barrios at a local dance club in Valparaiso. She was introduced Barrios’ older brother who told her that Barrios was a cyclist and being a bike enthusiast herself, she knew she had to meet this guy. Barrios bought her a drink, exchanged phone numbers, and the two became virtually inseparable. The two would go on long walks or visit bars and talk for hours.
Meeting Barrios inspired Castillo to improve her Spanish drastically. When she first met Barrios it was hard for her to explain how she felt exactly. “I wanted him to know me,” she says. After going on dates with Barrios she would go home and look up words that he had said that she did not understand and giddily ask her friends hypothetical questions to help grasp difficult Spanish phrases.
“Hola Bia!” she yells into her cell phone. She talks with her Cuban grandmother every day. "Bia, no puedo hablar ahora…" explaining that she can’t talk right now but would call her back later. Bia is short for ‘Abuela,’ or 'grandomther.' Her father, Juan Castillo, was born in Cuba and moved to the United States with his family during the Batista regime of the 1950’s.
Before choosing to study in Chile, she had expressed to Bia that she was interested in studying in Cuba. This brought Bia to tears she did not want her to go to Cuba. Bia explained to her that Cuba today is very different from the Cuba that she had known and it would upset her greatly if she went.
Bia refers to her as “mi niña” and every other nickname, pet name, and insult that existed in 1940’s Cuban slang. Besides Bia, Castillo’s family refers to her as “Nini” because at a young age she could not pronounce her original nickname “La Nina.”
Upon graduation, Castillo would like to return to Chile and have a job there. “I want to live there with Paulo for a little while,” she says. Barrios has expressed that he would like to live in the States with Castillo once he is fluent in English. Although, he does not want to come to the States as the stereotypical Latin boyfriend that is dependent on their girlfriend explains Barrios. Barrios is a man.
Saying goodnight to her boyfriend is one of her favorite parts of her day. “I used to be afraid to love. Paulo changed that,” she explains. “Mi corazón es en fuego…” she jokingly says to him on Skype. “Te amo mas que ayer," Barrios says lovingly.
Translation: I love you more than yesterday.

